DTWM 135: Expectations

On this episode of Drink Til We’re Married Podcast, HeyCutie sits down with DLew716. Yes he is back and we are talking about expectations. We all have them, but are they too high, are we communicating them well and most importantly… Are they realistic?!?!

Every day there is a new post about a man flying a woman out and then getting mad because she doesn’t want to have sex with him or a young lady is having drinks with her friends and wants her boyfriend to pay for everyone. What’s too much? Are you dating in the right pool for your expectations? Tune in and see what we think.

Drink of the Week: Summer Rain- made with Grays Peak Botanical Vodka, St. Augustine Grapefruit Hibiscus Mixer, Elderflower Lemonade, Mango Nectar, and a fresh lime garnish. CHEERS!!!

DTWM 134: If You’re Broke, Just Say That!

In this episode of Drink Til We’re Married Podcast, HeyCutie sits down with a friend to the room, DLew, to discuss dating and why people act rich on social media but when it comes to dating we are splitting the check. Where did the term “Gold Digger” start, should your Cash App ID be a part of your profile picture and should men automatically expect sex after a date? How much does social media play in how we view potential mates? Tune in to hear us break it down and address many other dating conundrums.

DLew definitely gets put in the Hot Seat, with all new questions, and handled it well! Be sure to follow DLew on IG @DLew716. Go to our home page, subscribe to our newsletter, and follow us on IG @Drinktilweremarried.

We were drinking of course! The drink for this episode was called “Check Please!”. The drink was made with Deleon Tequila, ginger flavored simple syrup, fresh squeezed lime juice, a dash of orange bitters, splash of seltzer water, on the rocks, and garnished with dried orange slices and fresh lime.


DTWM 133: The Black Experience w/ The Digital Cigar Podcast

In this episode HeyCutie joined the Digital Cigar Lounge Podcast to discuss the black experience. We delved into our thoughts on gentrification, the Maya Angelou coin, reparations and more.

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A new episode of Drink Til We’re Married Podcast in our regular format is dropping soon!


DTWM 132: Situations

On this episode of Drink Til We’re Married Podcast, HeyCutie is continuing her conversation with the fellas of The Digital Cigar Lounge Podcast with a focus on situations, marriage and characteristics that can make or break a relationship. The drinks continued to flow (check DTWM 131 for the recipe) and things were spicy! It’s always a good time when we start talking men’s perspective vs. women’s, especially as it relates to Marriage.

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DTWM 130: It’s All About Communication!

On the latest episode of Drink Til We’re Married Podcast, HeyCutie welcomes Derrick James back to the show. Of course he sat in the hot seat and after a little back and forth he made it. We shared our views on what it takes to have a successful relationship and it all comes back to communication. Derrick shares his things that make a relationship work and, you guessed it, they each take communicating and listening to your partner.

Of course we were drinking! Mr James made one of his famous “Basil Old Fashioned”. The recipe called for Larceny, Basil flavored simple syrup, maraschino cherry juice, and a cherry garnish.

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DTWM 129: Beautiful Chicks Get Cheated on Too!

On this episode of Drink Til We’re Married Podcast, HeyCutie welcomes Oz from The Double Standard Podcast to the Hot Seat (TBH Oz did his thing). After the Hot Seat segment they discuss various topics that include men losing trust after they get caught cheating, reasons men cheat, fatherless men, and why beautiful women get cheated on as well.

Be sure to follow Oz on IG @PastorSounds and tune in to The Double Standard Podcast. You can find Drink Til We’re Married episodes anywhere you listen to podcasts. If you have any hot seat questions please send those to us via Twitter @dtwm_podcast or on IG @drinktilweremarried. Cheers!

DTWM 128: Running The Numbers Up!

We are back with our favorite guest Ms. Houston. HeyCutie and Ms. Houston discuss why you shouldn’t be embarrassed about the number of sexual partners you have had. We also introduced “The Hot Seat”. It’s 10 questions, no embellishments to your answers, and it goes quick! Tune in to see how Ms. Houston fares with the questions.

*Please note that we do not take rape lightly, we are just sharing our experiences. No always means no and victims should always be taken seriously as well as get the necessary help to move forward.

DTWM 116: In My Feels… The Cup is NOT the Problem!

One of our favorite reoccurring guests is back on the show discussing Men’s feelings.  HeyCutie and CKDub welcome back Larry Mims, aka No Limit Larry, to the show and believe me… the cup is NOT the problem. This conversation started from a post on @iamnolimitlarry’s page that stated “Just incase y’all forgot… Men can hurt, Men can have depression, Men can hold things in, Men go through hell, Men have to fight their own demons everyday and not break.  Why tf he gotta fight his woman too?”. This definitely sparked a lively conversation on Instagram and with CKDub in particular.  Tune in because we talk about men having feelings, the 5 Love Languages and mental health in this episode. 

Here are links to some of the places were discussed in regards to affordable therapy (we are not paid advertisers for any of these businesses and should not be held responsible for any issues that may arise from contacting them):

getATTUNE is a mobile application that connects users with licensed therapists of their choice in their area.


Drink of the Week: White Henny Sweet Lemon Soda

  • 1-1/2 oz White Hennessy
  • 3/4 oz St. Germain
  • 1/2 oz Simple Syrup
  • 1/2 oz fresh squeezed lemon juice
  • splash of La Croix Lime Sparkling Water
  • Garnish with a lemon slice

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DTWM 103: Let’s Talk Bout Sex

On this episode of Drink Til We’re Married Podcast, HeyCutie is joined by Public Health Professional/Sex Educator Avis Melane to talk about sex. Not necessarily having sex but when you should start talking to your children about it, being open with having the conversation with your partner or potential significant other. We also talk about the Prep pill, Vag steams and yoni eggs. How many steps does it take to put on a condom? Tune in and find out!

DTWM 102: Risk vs. Rewards Pt. 2

On this Episode of Drink Til We’re Married Podcast, HeyCutie and CKDub welcome Shanard Smith (Da Best Dressed) to the segment to discuss the Faithful Black Men’s Association to add the male perspective. Are women expecting men to completely change who they are or are we simply asking men to respect their relationships? We discuss the fine lines between being charismatic, leading women on and cheating.

This Week’s Drink Of The Week:

The Silky Lizard
Tito’s Vodka
Tropicana Pineapple Mango Juice
Bubly Lime Seltzer Water
Fresh Lime garnish