Episodes

DTWM-28: The 30-Year-Old Virgin

Fellas, have you ever wondered where all the “good girls” are? Well, in the first of our new Single’s Series we are interviewing a 30-year-old virgin. During this interview we get an in depth look at how this single woman is navigating life, dating, and maintaining abstinence.

Drink of the Week: The Paloma

DTWM-27: Sex as a Weapon or Reward

In this episode, we discuss how women (and some men) are using sex as a weapon or reward in their relationships. Is it healthy, and are there other tactics that can be used to work through relationship issues?

The countdown to Winter Xscape is on… so we’re still watching our calories. Help us… Please help us.

Drink of the Day: Tequila Gimlet

DTWM-26: The Saga Continues

The Bill Cosby saga continued over the New Year holiday. In our first episode for the year, we discuss how to avoid getting drugged and what to do if it happens to you. We also talk about what we can do to support our own.

Since we’re 4 weeks out from our vacation, we decided to make a drink that would get us drunk but not fat.

Drink of the week: Slim Chick Cocktail – only 100 calories!

DTWM-25: What Do the Lonely Do at Christmas?

What do the lonely do at Christmas? Great question! Drink ‘Til We’re Married hosts HeyCutie and Geek Goddess give listeners a few suggestions on how to avoid an awkward or lonely holiday season.

Reservations for One: Treat yourself to dinner at either your favorite restaurant or the place you’ve been waiting to try all year. Don’t forget to have a drink at the bar either before or after dinner, you could potentially meet another person enjoying the holidays alone.
Movies: May the Force be With You.
Spa Day: Pamper yourself this holiday season. Next year will be your best year yet, so prepare your body now. While your there, try a new nail color or hair cut to ring in the New Year Fresh to Death.
Go Support the Home Team: If you’re in Charlotte this is a little difficult because of how AWESOME the Carolina Panthers are but tailgate parties are a must.
Travel: BookDatIsh (s/o to Push Kee) – If when you see an amazing travel deal for a destination you’ve been waiting to visit.
Drink of the Week: 50Daddy – When Two Titans Collide

DTWM-24: The Single’s Guide to Gift Giving

The Single’s Guide to Gift Giving: How to give a great gift without being lame. There’s only one week before Christmas, and if you landed a boo during cuffing season it’s likely you will be exchanging gifts. But what should you get? During this episode we break down the best gifts for each stage of your relationship. We also offer some practical gifts for those who have no idea what to buy. Fellas, PLEASE LISTEN and TAKE NOTES!

Our festive Drink of the Week is: Cranberry Margarita

DTWM-23: Does No Really Mean No?

If your partner proposes and you say no, does that mean the relationship is over? This week we discuss what happens if a proposal is declined. Can you bounce back from a failed proposal and have a healthy relationship? Why are women even with guys that they don’t plan on marrying?  And read our latest blog to learn the hot Drink til We’re Married news! https://drinktilweremarried.com/123

Drink of the Week: Peppermint Patty

DTWM-22: Does Monogamy Still Exist in 2015?

Lately we’ve heard the term “Hall Pass” thrown around everywhere as it relates to new relationships. In this episode hosts HeyCutie and Geek Goddess discuss monogamy; does it still exist in 2015? We discuss why couples are redefining what a traditional marriage looks like, and whether this change is healthy for our community and future generations.

 
We also dive into why the guests on the new season of #AskaBlackMan don’t have a real jobs.

The Drink of the Week is the highly anticipated Ciroc Apple.

DTWM-21: The Dating Game

Are you tired of going out to the club with the hopes of meeting someone?  Maybe you don’t want to step into the online dating scene to find a date.  Well if you’re in the Queen City, there’s an event you should attend that’s going to change the way you find a date.

Prive Charlotte is bringing  “The Dating Game” to North Carolina.

On this episode, HeyCutie and Geek Goddess sit down with Ryan from Prive Charlotte to find out how they came up with this idea, why they think the city needs an event like this, how they selected the contestants and what other events we should be on the look out for from them.

For tickets to this event visit: Prive Charlotte.com

Since we’re talking about dating, we found the perfect cocktail for date night.  The drink of the day is the Sparkling Lemon Drop Martini

DTWM-20: Besties over Testies

Our episode this week answers a question from a listener:
“Can you be friends with someone when you hate the person whom they’re dating? My friend’s boyfriend is a cheater and a liar, and she keeps taking him back. She moved him in and this changed everything between us. He got her and another girl pregnant at the same time. And he puts the other girl on his Facebook with pictures of them dating and none of her. My friend has loaned him money, which he has used to take the other chick out…. But still she wants him. The site of him sickens me so I don’t hang around her when he is around. They live together and I do NOT feel comfortable being there if he is home. I invite her out with me but I have to ask if she is coming alone because I don’t want him in my house.I love her and feel like a bad friend because of the limitations I have put on our friendship. Plus she isn’t the same person she, she is sad all the time or angry and shuts herself off to the world. I still reach out to check on her but I do not bring up the boyfriend at all.

As a friend should I keep my distance and see how it plays out? Try only talking to her on the phone and seeing her when he isn’t around and hope it doesn’t push her way? Or do I need to fake it until I make it with the boyfriend and let him come with her when we hang out?”
Geek Goddess and HeyCutie give the listener advice on how to handle this situation and when it’s a good time to step away or set boundaries. Listen in as we help preserve friendships and weed out the foolery.

 
Drink of the Day: Queen Bee Royale

DTWM-19: Presentation is Everything

We’ve all heard the saying, “Presentation is Everything” but how often do we think about what presentation is necessary as we get older?

On this episode, Geek Goddess and HeyCutie discuss the 10 Things Women Over 30 are Too Damn Old For.  This conversation is perfect for women in their early thirties who haven’t fully made the transition into grown and sexy hood.

In honor of Grown and Sexy hood, the drink of the day is “Make Me Over”; HeyCutie’s own special recipe.